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Ares was the Greek god of brutal warfare, bloodlust, and battlefield violence. Despised by the other Olympians (including his own father Zeus), he represented the savage side of combat that the Greeks feared. His Roman counterpart Mars was far more honoured. As an archetype, Ares is the shadow of raw aggression that...
Table of Contents
- The Most Hated God on Olympus
- Ares vs. Athena: Two Gods of War
- Ares in the Iliad: Screaming Like Ten Thousand Men
- Ares and Aphrodite: War in the Bedroom
- Phobos and Deimos: The Children of Battlefield Terror
- Thrace: The Homeland of the War God
- Cult and Worship: Where Ares Was Honoured
- Mars: How Rome Redeemed the God of War
- The Ares Archetype: Shadow Aggression and Its Integration
- Ares in the Modern Psyche
Quick Answer
Ares was the Greek god of brutal warfare, bloodlust, and battlefield violence. Despised by the other Olympians (including his own father Zeus), he represented the savage side of combat that the Greeks feared. His Roman counterpart Mars was far more honoured. As an archetype, Ares is the shadow of raw aggression that must be integrated, not repressed.
Table of Contents
- The Most Hated God on Olympus
- Ares vs. Athena: Two Gods of War
- Ares in the Iliad: Screaming Like Ten Thousand Men
- Ares and Aphrodite: War in the Bedroom
- Phobos and Deimos: The Children of Battlefield Terror
- Thrace: The Homeland of the War God
- Cult and Worship: Where Ares Was Honoured
- Mars: How Rome Redeemed the God of War
- The Ares Archetype: Shadow Aggression and Its Integration
- Ares in the Modern Psyche
- Frequently Asked Questions
Key Takeaways
- Ares was the most despised Olympian: Even Zeus called him "the most hateful of all gods." He represented the brutal, chaotic dimension of war that the Greeks associated with barbarism, not heroism.
- Athena defeated Ares repeatedly in myth: Strategic warfare (Athena) consistently beats blind aggression (Ares). The mortal Diomedes also wounded Ares with Athena's help, proving that intelligence trumps rage.
- His affair with Aphrodite produced symbolic children: Eros (desire), Phobos (fear), Deimos (terror), and Harmonia (balance). War and love are connected because both expose the self completely.
- Rome redeemed Ares as Mars: The Romans transformed the despised Greek war god into Mars, father of Rome's founders, protector of the state, and emblem of martial virtue. Mars had dignity where Ares had only violence.
- As archetype, Ares is the shadow of aggression: Repressed rage that erupts when unacknowledged. Integration (not suppression) of Ares energy produces the capacity for fierce, boundaried, purposeful action.
The Most Hated God on Olympus
Ares holds a unique position in the Greek pantheon: he is the only Olympian whom the other gods actively despise. In Book 5 of Homer's Iliad, when Ares comes whimpering to Olympus after being wounded by the mortal Diomedes, Zeus delivers the most savage parental rejection in all of Greek literature:
"To me you are the most hateful of all gods who hold Olympus. Forever quarrelling is dear to your heart, wars and battles... And yet I will not long endure to see you in pain, since you are my child, and it was to me that your mother bore you. But were you born of some other god and proved so ruinous, long since you would have been dropped beneath the gods of the bright sky." (Iliad 5.889-898, trans. Lattimore)
Zeus is saying, in effect: "I would have thrown you out of heaven if you were not my son." No other Olympian receives this treatment. Even Hephaestus, who was thrown from Olympus as an infant, was eventually welcomed back. Ares is tolerated, not accepted.
The Greeks were not pacifists. They fought constantly. They celebrated martial courage in their poetry, their games, and their public life. What they despised was war without intelligence, without strategy, without moral purpose. Ares represents the moment on the battlefield when all planning fails and there is nothing left but screaming, bleeding, and killing. He is what war becomes when the general's plan collapses, when discipline breaks, when soldiers panic and slaughter indiscriminately. The Greeks knew this reality intimately. They did not want to worship it.
Ares is consistently portrayed as a coward beneath the bluster. When wounded, he screams and flees. When outmatched, he retreats. When caught in Hephaestus's net with Aphrodite, he has nothing to say while the other gods laugh. He is all surface, all force, all noise, with nothing behind it. The Greeks understood that genuine courage (andreia) is quiet, disciplined, and intelligent. Ares's shrieking violence is its opposite.
Ares vs. Athena: Two Gods of War
The Greek division of warfare between Ares and Athena is one of the most psychologically precise constructs in any mythology. Both gods fight. Both carry weapons. Both enter the battlefield. But they represent entirely different relationships to violence.
| Ares | Athena |
|---|---|
| Aggression, rage, bloodlust | Strategy, discipline, tactical intelligence |
| Offensive warfare (attacking) | Defensive warfare (protecting the city) |
| Chaos on the battlefield | Order on the battlefield |
| Fights for the sake of fighting | Fights to win, then stops |
| Accompanies Trojans (the losing side) | Accompanies Greeks (the winning side) |
| Defeated repeatedly in myth | Never defeated in myth |
| Born of Zeus and Hera (passion) | Born of Zeus alone (pure mind) |
In the Iliad's "Battle of the Gods" (Book 21), Athena confronts Ares directly. Ares hurls his spear. Athena deflects it. Then she picks up a boulder and throws it at his head. Ares collapses. Athena stands over him and says: "Fool, you have not yet learned how much greater I am than you." The scene is humiliating for Ares because it demonstrates that raw force, applied without intelligence, is not even strong. It is just loud.
Ares in the Iliad: Screaming Like Ten Thousand Men
Ares's most vivid appearances in Greek literature are in Homer's Iliad, where he fights on the Trojan side. His entry into battle is described in terms of sheer physical impact. When he is wounded by Diomedes's spear (guided by Athena), his scream is one of the most extraordinary images in Homer:
"Brazen Ares bellowed with a sound as great as nine thousand men make, or ten thousand, when they cry in the clamour of Enyalios, the war god." (Iliad 5.859-861, trans. Lattimore)
The scream is Ares in his essence: enormous, terrifying, and completely without content. It communicates nothing except pain and rage. It is the sound of war stripped of everything except its noise.
Ares fights for the Trojans in the Iliad, but he has no loyalty to Troy. He fights wherever the fighting is thickest. When Aphrodite (who supports Troy because Paris awarded her the golden apple) is wounded and retreats, Ares follows not out of strategic alliance but because Aphrodite is his lover and the fighting around her was intense. Ares does not choose sides. He goes where blood is being shed. This is the mythological expression of war's indifference to cause: once the killing begins, it does not matter who started it or why.
Ares's role in the Iliad also includes being captured by the Aloadae (the giants Otus and Ephialtes), who imprisoned him in a bronze jar for thirteen months until Hermes freed him. This imprisonment by mortals further diminishes his divine dignity. No other Olympian is captured and held by human or semi-human figures. Ares can be contained, which means he is not as powerful as he appears.
Ares and Aphrodite: War in the Bedroom
The love affair between Ares and Aphrodite is one of the most retold stories in Greek mythology. Aphrodite was married to Hephaestus, the lame smith god, in an arranged marriage that pleased neither party. She turned to Ares, and their affair was passionate, extended, and indiscreet.
Helios, the sun (who sees everything), spotted the lovers together and informed Hephaestus. The craftsman god forged an invisible net of golden chains, so fine they could not be seen but so strong they could not be broken. He set the trap over the bed and announced that he was leaving for Lemnos.
Ares and Aphrodite went to bed. The net fell. They were pinned, naked and entangled, unable to move. Hephaestus summoned the Olympian gods to witness the spectacle. The reaction of the gods is telling: they laughed. Hermes said he would happily take Ares's place, net and all, if it meant lying with Aphrodite. Poseidon eventually brokered Ares's release by guaranteeing payment of a fine.
The union of Ares (raw force, aggression, the body at war) and Aphrodite (desire, beauty, the body in love) is not accidental. Love and war share a structure: both require the complete exposure of the self, both involve the surrender of control, both can produce ecstasy or destruction. The Greeks understood that the person you are in battle and the person you are in bed are disturbingly close to the same person. Hephaestus (craft, order, patient construction) is the cuckold because methodical intelligence cannot compete with passion's intensity. The net that catches the lovers is craft's only revenge: it cannot prevent the affair, only expose it.
Phobos and Deimos: The Children of Battlefield Terror
The children of Ares and Aphrodite form one of the most symbolically complete families in Greek mythology:
- Eros: Desire, the force that draws people toward each other (sometimes attributed to Aphrodite alone, but in some traditions he is the child of both).
- Phobos (Fear): The personification of panic and rout on the battlefield. He drives Ares's chariot and scatters armies not through strength but through terror. The English word "phobia" descends from his name.
- Deimos (Terror): Phobos's brother and companion, representing the deeper, more paralysing form of fear. Mars's two moons are named Phobos and Deimos.
- Harmonia: The most surprising child. Harmony, the reconciliation of opposites. Born from the union of war and love, Harmonia suggests that when aggression and desire are genuinely united (not suppressed or denied), the result is balance.
The presence of Harmonia among the children of Ares is the key to understanding this god's deeper significance. Ares is not only destruction. He is one half of a polarity that, when completed, produces balance. The problem is not that Ares exists. The problem is that he exists alone, without Aphrodite's counterweight, without the integration that produces Harmonia.
Thrace: The Homeland of the War God
Greek tradition placed Ares's homeland in Thrace, the region north of Greece that the Greeks considered barbarous, cold, and warlike. The Thracians were renowned warriors, frequently serving as mercenaries in Greek armies while being culturally despised by the Greeks who hired them.
The association of Ares with Thrace is a cultural statement. The Greeks projected their own discomfort with violence onto a neighbouring people. "We are civilised. We fight with strategy (Athena). They are barbarous. They fight with fury (Ares)." This projection allowed the Greeks to use violence extensively while maintaining the myth that their violence was qualitatively different from the violence of others.
Walter Burkert notes in Greek Religion that Ares's limited cult in mainland Greece reflects not a lack of violence in Greek society but an unwillingness to honour it directly. The Greeks fought, conquered, and enslaved on a massive scale. They simply did not want to build temples to the impulse that made that possible. Ares was the god they needed but refused to worship.
Cult and Worship: Where Ares Was Honoured
Despite his unpopularity, Ares had several cult sites:
- The Areopagus (Athens): The "Hill of Ares," where Athens's council for murder trials met. Ares was tried here for killing Poseidon's son Halirrhothius (who had raped Ares's daughter Alcippe). He was acquitted, establishing the precedent of the court. The connection between Ares and the murder court is telling: his domain is where blood has been shed and justice must respond.
- Sparta: The most militaristic Greek city-state gave Ares more respect than Athens did. Spartan warriors sacrificed to Ares before battle, and a statue of Ares in chains stood in the city, symbolically binding the god of war to Sparta's service.
- Thrace: His primary cult region, where warrior culture gave his energy direct expression.
- Temple in the Athenian Agora: A temple to Ares stood in Athens's central marketplace, possibly relocated from another site. Its presence in the civic centre suggests an attempt to domesticate and contain his energy within the bounds of civilised life.
Mars: How Rome Redeemed the God of War
The Romans performed one of the most remarkable theological transformations in ancient history: they took the most despised Greek god and made him one of their most honoured deities.
Mars was the father of Romulus and Remus, the legendary founders of Rome. This made him the ancestral protector of the Roman state itself. Where Ares was a god of chaos, Mars was a god of order: military discipline, civic duty, agricultural protection (Mars was originally a farming god before becoming a war god), and the martial virtues (virtus) that the Romans believed built their empire. The month of March (Martius) was named for him. The Campus Martius (Field of Mars) was where Roman soldiers trained. Mars embodied the Roman conviction that warfare, when conducted with discipline and purpose, is a force for civilisation, not against it.
This transformation reveals something about the nature of the archetype. The energy is the same: aggression, force, the capacity for violence. What changes is the container. The Greeks had Athena to carry the honourable aspects of warfare, so Ares was left with the dishonourable residue. The Romans merged the two into Mars, creating a single war god who could be both fierce and dignified.
The Ares Archetype: Shadow Aggression and Its Integration
In archetypal psychology, Ares represents the shadow of aggression: the rage, violence, and destructive force that civilised society teaches us to suppress. James Hillman, in works like A Terrible Love of War, argues that this suppression does not eliminate the energy. It drives it underground, where it erupts in distorted forms: road rage, domestic violence, addiction, passive aggression, or the collective violence of war itself.
The therapeutic question is not "How do I get rid of my anger?" It is "How do I give my anger a form that serves rather than destroys?"
- Acknowledge the rage. Ares energy that is denied does not disappear. It metastasizes. Name it: "I am furious." Name what triggered it. Naming is the first step of containment.
- Give it a body. Ares is a body god. His energy needs physical expression: intense exercise, martial arts, competitive sport, heavy labour. The energy must move through the body to be metabolized.
- Add Athena. Once the energy is felt and physically expressed, bring intelligence to it. What boundary was crossed? What injustice triggered the response? Is there a strategic, effective action you can take? Ares without Athena is a tantrum. Ares with Athena is a principled stand.
- Find the Aphrodite. What do you love enough to fight for? Ares energy in service of what matters (protecting your children, defending your values, standing against injustice) is Mars energy: dignified, purposeful, and strong. Ares energy without love is just destruction.
The shadow work tradition draws heavily on this Jungian understanding. The parts of ourselves we reject (the aggressive, the violent, the rageful) do not disappear when we disown them. They become autonomous, acting out in ways we cannot control. Integrating Ares means acknowledging that you are capable of violence, that this capacity is part of your wholeness, and that it can be directed rather than suppressed.
Ares in the Modern Psyche
Ares shows up in modern life whenever aggression is present but unacknowledged. The executive who destroys careers while insisting they are "just being direct." The parent who screams at a child and then denies it happened. The nation that wages war while calling it "peacekeeping." Ares energy, unintegrated, is always accompanied by denial.
The cultural treatment of Ares also reveals societal attitudes toward aggression. In cultures that suppress anger (many Western middle-class environments, for instance), Ares appears as anxiety, depression, or psychosomatic illness: the body carrying what the psyche refuses to express. In cultures that celebrate aggression (certain sports cultures, military subcultures, online spaces), Ares appears as normalized violence that masquerades as strength.
The Hermetic tradition teaches that every force has a higher and lower octave. Ares's lower octave is blind destruction. His higher octave is Mars: the disciplined warrior who fights for what matters, protects what cannot protect itself, and knows when to put the sword down. The Hermetic Synthesis Course includes practices for working with the martial principle in its constructive form.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Why did the Greeks hate Ares?
The Greeks hated Ares because he represented the brutal, chaotic, destructive side of war rather than its strategic, honourable dimension. In Homer's Iliad, even his father Zeus calls him "the most hateful of all gods who hold Olympus." Ares embodies bloodlust, panic, and slaughter without purpose. The Greeks valued war fought with intelligence and discipline (Athena's domain) and despised war as mindless carnage (Ares's domain).
What is the difference between Ares and Athena?
Both Ares and Athena are war deities, but they represent opposite aspects of combat. Athena governs strategic warfare: planning, discipline, defensive action, and victory through intelligence. Ares governs raw violence: bloodlust, rage, the chaos of the battlefield, and killing without strategy. In the Iliad, Athena defeats Ares in combat, symbolically demonstrating that disciplined warfare prevails over blind aggression.
What happened between Ares and Aphrodite?
Ares and Aphrodite (who was married to Hephaestus, the smith god) carried on an extended love affair. When Helios (the sun) saw them together and told Hephaestus, the craftsman god forged an invisible golden net and trapped the lovers in bed. He then summoned the other Olympians to witness their humiliation. The affair produced several children including Eros, Phobos (Fear), Deimos (Terror), and Harmonia.
Who are Phobos and Deimos?
Phobos (Fear) and Deimos (Terror) are the sons of Ares and Aphrodite. They accompany their father into battle, driving his war chariot and spreading panic among enemy armies. Their names are the roots of the English words "phobia" and the name of Mars's moon Deimos. In Homer's Iliad, they are personified as battlefield companions who amplify the psychological horror of combat.
What is the difference between Ares and Mars?
The Greek Ares was despised as the god of brutal, senseless warfare. The Roman Mars was one of the most important and honoured gods in the Roman pantheon. Mars was the father of Romulus and Remus (the founders of Rome), the protector of the Roman state, and a symbol of the martial virtues (virtus, discipline, courage) that the Romans believed built their empire. The Romans essentially redeemed Ares by giving his functions dignity, purpose, and civic meaning.
Was Ares worshipped anywhere?
Ares had limited worship in mainland Greece compared to other Olympians. His primary cult centre was in Thrace, which the Greeks considered a barbarous, warlike region. He also had a temple in the Athenian Agora (marketplace) and was worshipped in Sparta, where martial culture gave his energy more respect. The Areopagus ("Hill of Ares") in Athens, where the city's murder court sat, was named after him.
What are Ares's sacred symbols?
Ares's symbols include the spear and shield (his primary weapons), the war chariot, the vulture and the dog (scavengers and fighters associated with the battlefield), the boar (aggressive, dangerous), and the serpent. He is typically depicted in full armour, often helmed, carrying a spear. Unlike the elegant beauty associated with Apollo or Athena, Ares is visually coded as brutal, heavy, and direct.
Did Ares ever lose a battle?
Yes, repeatedly. Ares is the most frequently defeated god in Greek mythology. In the Iliad, the mortal hero Diomedes wounds Ares with Athena's guidance, causing the god to scream "like ten thousand men" and flee to Olympus. Athena herself knocks Ares unconscious with a boulder in the Iliad's Battle of the Gods. Heracles also defeated Ares in combat. These defeats are mythological statements: mindless aggression loses to intelligence, courage, and skill.
Why did Ares and Aphrodite have children together?
The union of Ares (war, violence) and Aphrodite (love, beauty, desire) is one of the most symbolically rich pairings in Greek mythology. Their children express the full spectrum of this union: Eros (desire), Phobos and Deimos (the fear and terror that accompany intense experience), and Harmonia (the balance that emerges when opposing forces are reconciled). War and love are connected because both involve the full, unguarded exposure of the self.
What is the Ares archetype in psychology?
In archetypal psychology, Ares represents raw, undirected aggression: the force that fights without strategy, that rages without purpose, that acts from the body's fury rather than the mind's plan. The Ares archetype is the shadow of civilised masculinity, the anger that society teaches men (and everyone) to suppress. When Ares energy is integrated, it becomes the capacity for fierce, embodied action. When it is repressed, it erupts as violence, road rage, domestic abuse, or self-destruction.
Sources & References
- Homer. The Iliad. Trans. Richmond Lattimore. University of Chicago Press, 1951. (Books 5, 15, 20, 21: Ares on the battlefield.)
- Homer. The Odyssey. Trans. Robert Fagles. Viking, 1996. (Book 8: The song of Ares and Aphrodite.)
- Burkert, Walter. Greek Religion. Harvard University Press, 1985.
- Kerenyi, Karl. The Gods of the Greeks. Thames and Hudson, 1951.
- Hillman, James. A Terrible Love of War. Penguin Press, 2004.
- Vernant, Jean-Pierre. Myth and Society in Ancient Greece. Harvester Press, 1980.
- Graf, Fritz. "Ares." In Brill's New Pauly: Encyclopedia of the Ancient World. Brill, 2002.
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